Does it help the parents of a deceased child to hear condolences fr strangers who knew the child?

A young man I knew died suddenly today. I'm afraid my call would be intrusive on this day, but can't see any other day being any better.





I would like them to know how highly impressed I was with their child.Does it help the parents of a deceased child to hear condolences fr strangers who knew the child?
It depends on the circumstances. At the funeral or a get together for that purpose, I'd say, yes. But out of the blue, no.Does it help the parents of a deceased child to hear condolences fr strangers who knew the child?
I have never lost a child but I did lose my mother at a young age. I think the worst part of the entire situation was being saying I'm sorry is there anything I can do. I know that it is what everyone says but it doesn't help and most of the time if you did call that person they wouldn't be there to help. I know that I had one friend that never said anything to me. In fact all she did was give me a big hug when I saw her next. In fact she was the only person that I really knew would be there for me no matter what. I think you should write them a letter maybe even wait a weeks or two. Let them know how great their son was and what he did in your life. If you don't know them they may appreciate your call but depending on their particular grieving process it may be harder to hear what you have to say than it would do any good. If you do write the letter or send a card they can put it away until they are ready. Be aware though that you may not hear back from them, never fear though it will help them out. Good luck.
I am a mother of 5 kids....ages 17,13,11,5,and 18 months and I pray to GOd that I die long before they do.However,IF one of them did die,I would really like to hear stories of their friendship and how much caring and love they shared.U were not a starnger,if u kne him,but this is ur only chance and im sure sending ur condolences will make u feel better,and them.Lifes way toooo short
Send them a sympathy card. It would not be intruding , but it would show that you share in there grief and you can write a message in the card for them. They will not be offended by this. It will help them to know that their child will be missed and that people share in their sorrow.
If possible, go to their home and just give them hugs and let them know you're thinking about them.
The first few days are tough, as they have alot going on. I would recommend sending them a sympathy card instead. This still shows your gratitude and sympathy but gives them the privacy that they need during this tough time. Good Luck.
writing a letter would be best. if they cannot handle it they will put the letter away for when they can. Also it will be a great memory for them to hang onto.
They are going to be very busy today. Go to the wake. They will really appreciate hearing from you.
I would have liked that ..yes very much Calling is more personal and genuine than a letter