Tuesday, August 24, 2010

How long is it til' children start to listen to their parents words and take their advice serious.?

When they move out on their own.How long is it til' children start to listen to their parents words and take their advice serious.?
when they become adults and their second child has arrivedHow long is it til' children start to listen to their parents words and take their advice serious.?
when they turn 42..no really when kids used to be at thirteen yrs of age now it's 4 anyways when they were thirteen u r REAL stupid but when they turn about in their 30s u become REAL SMART!!!!
Well for me,I took some of it when I lived at home.For the most part though,I didn't realize that they knew what they were talking about until I got married.I think once they experience real life,they kinda realize that mom %26amp; dad knew what the were talking about.
Guessing around 30ish, give or take a couple of years.
usually not until they are adults and have kids of their own....
I'm 20 and I'm only half way there. Kids need to learn on their own. You can tell em 100 times not to do something but they will do it until they get burned.
I could not tell you. I am in my mid 30s and I still dont listen to my parents advice. The only reason is, is that they grew up in very very different times and they are giving me advice that would have worked 50 years ago (my father is 73 my mother is 61) so that is why I dont. But I think for the most part many children dont because they are going to do what they feel is best for them and in the end everyone is their own person and you can give advice till you are blue in the end they will do what they feel they want to do. Dont get me wrong. As a parent myself of 2 boys I do tell my kids what they need to do and what I feel is best for them to do. It does not mean you should not give advice but truth is they wont always adhere to it.
Somewhere in the early to mid twenties. Once they have had a few years on their own and they see what the real world is about.


I only just in the past year or so started listening to my parents, and im 24. I respect their opions now, but that doesnt mean that I am always going to go with their advice. Ultimatly, I have to make my own choices and do what I think is best for me. What my parents want may not be what I want. But atleast I listen now.
depends on the advice that was given- i am 24 and married- and the only thing i listen to my mother about is pregnancy/child birth. I was always told one thing while my parents did annother. but the more inconsistant you are the more kids see through it. the hardest part about growing up and reflecting situations with your parents is when they dont remember 1/2 the stuff they did-or said.


My parents come to me for advise. i tell them what to do. and they listen. i guess i have just learned from their mistakes rather than to follow in their foot steps.


children need to have their own space-and not feel threatend by their elders-so they wont be afraid to come to you for advice on something they are having problems with
Depends on the person. i listen to my parents most of the time, take their advice. Sometimes i agree with what they say, sometimes i dont.. i know im in another part of my life than them, thus i have a different mindframe (and will, in the future, probably agree with a few things i dont agree with now). It doesnt mean im right, and it doesnt mean they are right (just for being older and wiser).
I am 15 and my bro is 17 and I think my parents are still having serious issues with this. Good Luck!
I think children should always be respectful to their parents and listen politely. But it doesn't matter what age they are - they will have their own ideas on what to do and how to do it.





I think sometimes parents should wait until the children ask them for advice.
im 20 with a 4mth old of my own and i still dont listen to my mothers advice!! ( single 20yr old mother, babies father is a tool, mum warned me!!)
they always listen -even when we think they aren't.
depends on the kid. but most kids hate taking thee parents advice. help them, but let them figure things out forthemselves. dont tell them what to think. but talk to them in a way which they will come up with your view themselves. they will feel good about themselves if they figure it out themselves

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