Tuesday, August 24, 2010

What's so wrong about adults living at home with their parents?

I don't get why today's society sees this as a bad thing or a joke. Everywhere you hear, someone is always making a joke at someone for still staying at home with their parents when they don't even know the person's situation. Suppose the person is going through problems in their life that requires them to live with someone other than on their own, even if that someone is their mother or father. I really think people in this society need to GROW UP and stop teasing people when they don't even know the whole situation of that particular person.What's so wrong about adults living at home with their parents?
Mike- I totally 100% percent agree with your posting!


My oldest son still lives at home with me and for all it's worth he's my: Best friend, renter, shoulder to cry on, we laugh, go for outing, and last we respect one others space. He doesn't do drugs, not a drunk, nor does he steal, and is always helping others. Ya people think it may be wrong, or may think he should be on his own, but however, when I start listening to those who don't contribute to our household, needs or pay our bills is the day I will take what they say to heart BUT to that day, ';THEY CAN MIND THEIR OWN BACKYARD'S';!


Edit: I forgot to mention; Also in these times and days we need to stick together. Family needs to help one another out, This is the only way out of these trying times...That are only going to see harder times, with all these layoffs to come. We are in a recession.What's so wrong about adults living at home with their parents?
It's not bad! The people who are having hissy fits about it are jealous because they are busting their butts to rent some dumpy apartment or pay their mortgage on a house that could go back to the bank any second. I think if you have a job and help out there is nothing wrong with it.

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housing is so over price you would have to get a jumbo loan and then some


most adult got price out of the housing market .$580,000 $680,000 in ca watch the run up in home price year by year 1997-2007 $350,000 for a house that look like a old barn what is going on? Now new home 40% 50% 60%70% off.

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i dunt know either. i mean you could be a person is is very close to ur parents and have a good relationship with them. As long as you have a job and can take care of urself and help ur parents out i dunt see the problem. the bad thing would be being dependent on them financially and in other ways till you were an adult. that would look bad. i guess people just assume if you still live at home it's becuase you are dependent on ur parents and dunt realize that you could just be really close to them or have other reasons to stay with them.
i dont think its bad i'm 20 and i live with my mom but i want to move out. i moved out at 17 and just moved back home due to money issues but beside that i dont really get it either people hit hard times or just cant function correctly and wont tell people that so i honestly feel they should lay off people too.





but the only bad thing about really living with them is privacy.
I have nothing against it .





But you have more of a reason than anyone else.


I am living at home cause I can't find a decent job in which I can live on my own.


Thats my problem. pisses me off.


I upkeep the house and pay bills and rent. I buy my own food. etc
it's just natural - a person grows up and wants to find a place where s/he can live by him/herself. if the person decides to live with parents then s/he hasn't grew up yet... I see this as abnormal
OK.
I don't think it's a bad thing, and with the economy the way it is, it's probably a smart move. Both of my older siblings have lived with my parents during their adult lives, mostly in order to save money and live rent free. When I graduate college in May, I'll be moving back in with my parents; I'll have student loan payments, and there's no way I can handle those AND rent AND utilities in New York City on a starting salary.
no one realy thinks like that..i think thats just the media making fun of people that cant find a girl to date and marry..and still live with their parants..at like 40 0r 50 for that reason ..
well theres nothing wrong with it as long as they are recieving the help they need. psychiatrists are very good at helping the mentally disturbed.

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